Is she real? A straight answer, before you spend a dollar.
Independent guides for men considering a relationship across borders: how to spot a scheme, where to meet people honestly, and what the visa paperwork actually involves.
Check the 9 warning signsThe guides
- Dating scams and red flags
The nine warning signs, how each scheme works, and what to do when you recognise one.
- Where to meet: agencies, platforms or travel
What each route offers, what it costs you in time and risk, and how to judge a provider.
- Visas and marriage
The official routes to the United States, the United Kingdom and Canada, with links to the government pages.
- Culture and realistic expectations
Language, family, and the gaps between what you imagine and what you will meet.
- Frequently asked questions
Short answers, each pointing to the guide that goes further.
What this site is, and is not
This site publishes information only. It does not introduce members, does not list profiles and does not take payments for introductions. Read how the guides are researched on the about page.